@<>s: it specifies how far "sideways" the arrow should be
	moved, e.g.,
\xymatrix{
 A \ar@<1ex>[dr]^a_{.} \\
   & B \ar@<1ex>[ul]^b \ar@<1ex>[r]^c
     & C \ar@<1ex>[l]^d_{.} }
	A positive distance will slide the arrow in the "^-direction," e.g.,
	the two arrows above are slid in the direction of the labels a,
	b, c, and d, respectively; a negative distance in the
	"_-direction."  The distance <@1ex> is often appropriate since it
	corresponds roughly to the height of letters like "x," in the type size
	being used.
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